That's how time zooms. Speed at 200km per sec....Witnessed the different stages of her life..Feel happy for her cos she has found happiness. Years down the road, she will be a young and hip mummy while we are still fighting hard in our careers. I think my mum is right, there bound to be pros and cons. She has married and given birth early while we are still enjoying. She might be leading a tough life now to bring up her kids but her hard work will be paid off some years down the road. Ultimately, it still boils down to whether the benefits outweigh the cost. lol...can use activity based costing to analyse the breakdown of costs involved in bringing up the kids. wahahahhahaha...i am gg bonkers again..back to be mugger~